Few in this world are ever simply nasty; those who hurt us are themselves in pain. The appropriate response is hence never cynicism nor aggression but, at the rare moments one can manage it, always love.

Alain De Botton
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We are all wounded by life. We are all hurt by the actions of others, but that does not have to mean that we are mean-spirited or cynical. It does not mean that we must be aggressive or hostile towards others. Cherish people, forgive those who have hurt you. There is no need to be bitter; it is better to be compassionate and loving than to be cynical and bitter.

Source: The Course Of Love

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